Student Finds Joy in Solitude While Studying Abroad in London
Chloe Langerman, a student from Syracuse University, embarked on a four-month study abroad program in London with the aim of expanding her social circle. Initially focused on meeting new people and forming friendships, she discovered a deeper appreciation for her own company, ultimately reshaping her perspective on solitude.
Langerman set off for London in the summer before her junior year, driven by a desire to step outside her comfort zone. Growing up in the Midwestern suburbs, she anticipated that this vibrant city would offer countless opportunities to connect with others, from her Shakespeare class to the bustling café culture. Her enthusiasm was palpable as she planned to bond with her flatmates and explore the city’s rich social landscape.
Upon arrival, Langerman encountered an unexpected reality. Although she had a built-in group of flatmates, their differing schedules often left her alone. With no acquaintances in her program, she found herself navigating the city solo, which initially made her feel self-conscious. She recalled moments of uncertainty, as she clutched her phone, worried about appearing lost—a common tourist mistake.
As she explored London, Langerman noticed the contrast between her experiences and those of the locals. She observed groups of friends sharing laughter, while she sometimes felt isolated in the midst of historical landmarks. For a time, the absence of companionship made it challenging to fully appreciate the wonders around her, such as the iconic Buckingham Palace.
Over the weeks, however, Langerman began to embrace her solitude. The discomfort she initially felt gradually transformed into a sense of freedom. She relished the ability to visit museums, dine at her leisure, and wander the streets without concern for others’ schedules. Mastering the Tube and bus system further enhanced her confidence, allowing her to navigate the city with ease.
By reframing her time alone, Langerman discovered a newfound fulfillment. Rather than retreating to her room as she often did back home, she found joy in independent adventures. Every stroll through the city became an opportunity for self-discovery, enriching her experience in a way she had not anticipated.
While Langerman successfully achieved her original goal of meeting new people, the memories that resonate most from her time in London are those of her solo excursions. Surrounded by centuries-old art and the vibrant atmosphere of local cafés, she forged connections with the city itself, rather than just with other individuals.
As her time abroad concluded, Langerman returned to the United States with greater self-assurance. She emerged from her experience in London not only with new friendships but also with a profound appreciation for solitude. This journey taught her that enjoying one’s own company can be equally rewarding as social interactions, a lesson she carries with her as she continues her academic journey.
