Nicole Kidman Files for Divorce from Keith Urban After 19 Years
On September 30, 2023, Nicole Kidman filed for divorce from Keith Urban, bringing an end to their 19-year marriage. The couple has reportedly been quietly separated for some time, with sources revealing that they needed space to determine the future of their relationship. According to an insider from Nashville, “They had been quietly separated for a while now but needed time to figure out if they were going to actually divorce.”
The documents filed by Kidman cite “irreconcilable differences” as the reason for the split, indicating a breakdown in the relationship. The date of separation is noted as the same date as the divorce filing, adding a layer of complexity to their current situation. Alongside the divorce, Kidman is seeking to be named the “primary residential parent” of their two daughters, Sunday, 17, and Faith, 14.
Sources close to the couple suggest that the decision to divorce was not initiated by Kidman, who is said to be devastated by the turn of events. The insider noted, “Her trust was lost, and it was too far gone. Nicole had been trying to get them to work on their marriage and did not want this to get out to the public.” For months, she reportedly kept the situation private, confiding in only a few close friends.
Distance and Separate Lives
The couple had last appeared publicly together at the FIFA Club World Cup 2025 game in Nashville on June 20, shortly before Kidman celebrated their wedding anniversary with a heartfelt Instagram post. On that occasion, she shared, “Happy Anniversary Baby ❤️ @KeithUrban,” to which Urban responded with a red heart emoji. Despite this apparent show of affection, insiders reveal that both parties have been living increasingly separate lives due to their work commitments.
As they pursued their individual careers, the couple drifted apart. “Nicole and Keith were not on the same page,” explained the source. “Rumors around town have been circling that they were living apart, were focused on their own projects, and that Keith had moved on.” The growing distance became more apparent in recent months, leading to speculation about the state of their marriage.
Us Weekly has reached out to representatives for both Urban and Kidman for comments regarding the split.
Career Focus Amid Personal Turmoil
As Kidman embarks on a new chapter in her life, she remains focused on her career. Currently, she is working on Practical Magic 2 and is anticipated to return for a third season of Big Little Lies, which was confirmed earlier this month. Meanwhile, Urban continues to tour for his High and Alive World Tour, with his first performance since the announcement of their separation scheduled for October 2, 2023, in Hershey, Pennsylvania.
During a recent concert, Urban appeared to address his changing circumstances by altering the lyrics of his song “The Fighter.” Instead of the usual lyrics, he acknowledged his guitarist and rising country star Maggie Baugh, singing, “When they’re tryna get to you, Maggie, I’ll be your guitar player.” This moment has led fans to speculate about the emotional weight behind the change.
Urban has previously shared that “The Fighter” was inspired by his relationship with Kidman, reflecting a desire to protect and support her during challenging times. As both continue their careers, fans will undoubtedly keep a close eye on how this high-profile separation unfolds in the public eye.
