In June 1968, a chance encounter in Mazatlán, Mexico, sparked a romantic journey that would last over five decades. Beverly Carriveau, a 23-year-old Canadian librarian, felt a profound connection with Bob Parsons, a 30-year-old yacht captain, the moment their eyes met outside a hotel gift shop. The two would go on to build a life together filled with adventure, love, and unexpected challenges.
Beverly arrived in Mazatlán on vacation and was immediately captivated by the vibrant scenery and ocean views. While browsing a gift shop, she spotted Bob stepping out of a taxi. “I was riveted,” she recalls, describing him as tall and handsome. Although they exchanged no words, the intensity of their gaze left Beverly feeling as if she had experienced a “thunderbolt.”
Later that evening, while dining with a friend, Beverly received an unexpected surprise. A waiter approached her table with a bottle of white wine, stating it was from a man at the bar, which set off a whirlwind of emotions. Initially hesitant to accept drinks from strangers, she and her friend ultimately decided to accept the wine, leading Beverly to seek out its sender.
Upon reaching the bar, Beverly once again locked eyes with Bob, who smiled and acknowledged her. Their conversation flowed easily, and they shared a dinner filled with laughter and mutual interest. Bob was straightforward and respectful, making a lasting impression on Beverly. As the night progressed, they ventured to a beach bar, where their connection deepened amidst dancing and conversation.
Over the next week, Beverly and Bob spent every day together, with Beverly maintaining boundaries by ensuring her friend was always present. Nonetheless, they exchanged contact information before Beverly returned to Vancouver, where she felt an overwhelming sense of longing for Bob. Upon checking her mail, she found a note from her roommate inquiring about the mysterious Captain Parsons, affirming the bond they had formed during their brief time together.
In the following weeks, Beverly and Bob exchanged letters, but the communication was slow and cumbersome. Then, in late July, Beverly received a phone call from Bob’s employer’s wife, inviting her to San Diego for a weekend. Without a second thought, she agreed, knowing it was a leap of faith.
During this weekend, their bond solidified. Beverly found herself enamored with Bob’s calm demeanor and presence. After returning home, she resigned from her job and prepared for a new chapter in her life. “I thought…‘If I don’t go, I’ll wonder the rest of my life,’” she reflects.
Beverly arrived in Mazatlán at the end of August, ready to reunite with Bob. The couple quickly adapted to life on the water, managing several yachts while Beverly took on various roles, including cooking. Their connection grew stronger, culminating in a proposal from Bob. Beverly was taken aback but found herself contemplating her relationship with her ex-boyfriend Doug, who had supported her throughout their time together.
In a moment of spontaneity, the couple called Beverly’s parents from the boat to announce their engagement. Their conversation, conducted over a radio system, was filled with excitement and chaos, ultimately leading to a wedding planned for September 1968.
Beverly and Bob’s wedding in Vancouver was a blend of surprise and joy. Despite some initial skepticism from friends, the couple’s genuine love quickly won over the guests. Looking back, Beverly appreciates the traditional church wedding her mother insisted upon, viewing it as a significant commitment to their relationship.
Following their marriage, Beverly and Bob returned to Mexico, where they embraced the yachting lifestyle. They rented a beach house and formed close relationships with the yacht owners, often weathering storms and celebrating joyous moments together. While Beverly sometimes felt unfulfilled professionally, she credits her experiences at sea for preparing her for a successful career as a boat agent.
As their lives evolved, Beverly and Bob remained devoted to each other, traveling extensively across the globe while building a successful business together. They chose not to have children, instead enjoying their freedom and the richness of their partnership. Beverly recalls how their early years on the yacht laid a strong foundation for their relationship and work life.
Tragically, Bob was diagnosed with dementia in his later years. Throughout this challenging period, Beverly remained steadfast in her commitment to him, ensuring he received the care and love he needed. Bob passed away in early 2020, leaving Beverly to reflect on their incredible journey together.
Now, as Beverly approaches her 80th birthday, she remains active in the yachting business and cherishes the memories of her life with Bob. She has also rekindled a friendship with Doug, her ex-boyfriend, and plans to celebrate her milestone birthday with a cruise to Alaska.
Beverly’s story is a testament to the power of love, the importance of taking risks, and the joy of following one’s heart. Looking back on their 52 years together, she expresses gratitude for the life they built and the adventures they shared. “I’m just so glad that I took a chance,” she concludes.
