Creator Holly Treats Takes on 48,000 Dates in Unique Project
Creator Holly Treats, known for her innovative approach to dating, is currently navigating the complex landscape of romance with a staggering 48,000 dates documented in her project titled “Crush Matrix.” Under her real name, Victoria Toplansky, the 30-year-old is exploring the intricacies of modern relationships while aiming to discover if the ideal partner truly exists.
Holly’s ambitious experiment began several months ago, as she meticulously records each date in a customized compatibility matrix. This comprehensive log includes various details about the men she meets, such as their names, astrological signs, and places of residence. In an exclusive interview with Us Weekly, she remarked, “I have to get a reasonable sample to have accurate data. It is what it is. It’s not pretty all the time to do research.”
As of now, Holly is close to her goal of 50,000 entries, averaging more than five dates daily. She has set specific criteria for what qualifies as a date in her project. For instance, a phone conversation is essential; she noted, “If I’m getting you on FaceTime, I’m somewhat sexually attracted to you.” Additionally, she considers private chats at social gatherings as impromptu dates, stating, “We’re like, ‘No one else exists but us.’”
Holly’s dating experiences have been a mix of “very high highs and very low lows.” She shared a memorable night out in Las Vegas, recalling a dinner at a Michelin-star restaurant, though she struggled to remember specific details due to the sheer volume of her dating history. “I just remember the whole vibe,” she explained.
Some dates have proven to be more unusual than others. Holly recounted an encounter where a man fell asleep in the bathroom after becoming increasingly rude during their time together. Despite these ups and downs, she continues to engage with a selection of high-profile individuals, opting not to include them in her “Crush Matrix” to maintain their anonymity.
Of the 48,000 entries logged so far, Holly revealed that fewer than 400 men are “probably ready for marriage, regardless of whether or not it’s with me,” and around 50 men stand out as those she is particularly interested in. She emphasized that she remains in touch with all the men she has dated, stating, “If they made it onto my 48,000 list — because not everyone even made it onto the list — so if they made it onto that list, they’re getting talked to.”
As Holly embarks on this extensive dating journey, she has gained significant insights about herself and the nature of love. With over 1.6 million followers on Instagram, she shared, “I hate to say it, but dating is a numbers game, and you just can’t spend too much time with people once you kind of overwhelmingly know it’s not right.”
Through her “Crush Matrix,” Holly Treats not only aims to redefine the dating experience but also to illuminate the realities of searching for connection in a world filled with options. As her project progresses, many will be watching to see how her findings shape her understanding of love and relationships.
